Family Ministry Plan

Our Family Ministry plan nurtures faith from infancy through high school, guiding children and parents to grow in knowledge, worship, and Christian living. Through each developmental stage, our goal is to establish parents as primary faith leaders, equipping them to incorporate Bible reading, prayer, and worship into daily life, while helping children understand the gospel, experience worship, and build a personal relationship with Christ. With age-appropriate resources and meaningful church events, we aim to foster a lifelong love for God and cultivate resilience in faith, preparing youth to embody Christ's teachings as they mature.

The following stages represent a pathway for faith formation, each tailored to a child’s growth and readiness. At each milestone, parents are supported in their role as primary faith influencer, while children deepen their understanding and commitment, creating a foundation for a lifelong journey of faith.

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Stage 1
0-3 Years - Troy Kids Babies & Toddlers

In these early years, the focus is on establishing a foundation of love, trust, and simple faith habits in the home. Parents are encouraged to begin family worship practices—reading, praying, and singing with their child—establishing early exposure to God’s word and worship.

Developmental Consideration: Babies and toddlers learn through repetition, comfort, and familiarity. Simple Bible stories, songs, and prayer routines establish comforting patterns that instill a sense of God’s presence from an early age.

Stage 2
Pre-Kindergarten and Kindergarten

As children begin to engage more with the world around them, this stage emphasizes introducing them to Bible stories and basic catechism concepts. Parents are encouraged to use daily moments to talk about God, making faith a natural part of the child’s experiences.

Developmental Consideration: Young children are naturally curious and absorb stories and lessons through play and repetition. They learn through concrete examples, making Bible stories an effective way to teach about God’s love and power.

Stage 3
First through Third Grade

In this stage, children begin to participate in worship and engage more deeply with Bible stories. Parents guide gospel conversations and continue to introduce children to prayer, worship, and scripture memorization, helping them connect personally with God.

Developmental Consideration: Elementary-aged children are increasingly able to understand moral lessons and enjoy learning in structured settings. With growing independence, they benefit from engaging family worship routines that connect Bible principles with everyday life.

Stage 4
Fourth through Sixth Grade

As children transition into preteens, this stage encourages them to explore the core elements of the gospel and develop foundational biblical knowledge. Parents foster a culture of questions, supporting their child’s faith as they become more reflective and independent.

Developmental Consideration: Preteens start to question and seek understanding for themselves, moving from concrete to more abstract thinking. They are ready to engage in discussions about faith, values, and scripture as they start personal Bible study and prayer.

Stage 5
Middle School

Middle school marks a period of deeper understanding, as students explore practical gospel applications in their lives and deepen their personal faith practices. Parents continue to encourage independence while remaining available for open conversations on important life topics.

Developmental Consideration: Middle schoolers are developing critical thinking skills and a desire for personal identity, making this a prime time to discuss how faith applies to real-life situations, such as relationships, responsibilities, and personal choices.

Stage 6
High School

High school years are about maturing in knowledge of Christ and preparing for an independent walk of faith. Parents support their teens in solidifying personal faith practices and navigating complex cultural issues with wisdom and integrity.

Developmental Consideration: Teenagers seek autonomy and relevance in their faith. This stage involves a mature understanding of the Bible, making connections between faith and life choices, and engaging with church and community in ways that prepare them for adulthood.